Reevaluating Christmas Traditions

Christmas is a special time of year... traditions make memories. Yet, sometimes, they can trap us, the demands to keep up the tradition can overwhelm the tradition itself. On facebook, I've noticed lots of people baking cookies but not having the time. Traditions overwhelming the joy they are meant to bring.

Perhaps, when that happens, it's time to rethink the tradition. When traditions overshadow this time of family and love, perhaps, it's time to say good-bye. After all, which is more important? Perfectly decorated sugar cookies on a platter or laughter and hugs? Which is more valuable, the "right" gift? Or, the love it represents?

Our family baked cookies together a couple nights ago, and for the first time in a long time, we all had fun. Ellie and Ben made chocolate covered pretzels - easy to do independently - while Rob and I made bar cookies. One recipe, one pan and done! Nathan floated among it all, helping with everything, especially quality control (tasting the batter :D). It was the most relaxing baking night we have ever had! And, we have a platter of yummy delights to share.

We're doing something similar with the shopping. Whatever we haven't done by TODAY - yes, BEFORE Christmas Eve - isn't getting done. Period. There's no reason to rush out and buy stuff to shove under the tree. We already know we love each other, and honestly, will we remember all the gifts anyway?

This Christmas is different at our house. It's about time together, playing games and watching movies... maybe because Nathan leaves for college in two years, we realize what a gift this time is. It's about love and sharing... after all, God gave love at Christmas, sharing his son with the world... why shouldn't we share the love we have?

The slower pace is a treasure. And that's a tradition worth savoring!