You win some, you lose some

Last week, Nathan's band participated in grand nationals in Indianapolis, IN. Of the 91 bands in the competition, WJHS placed 19th overall. They placed third in class as well. All that while marching 68 first year members (of a total 177). Impressive to say the least.

Yet, the kids were disappointed that they didn't make finals (the top 12 bands). My son, a bit uncharacteristically, cried in frustration. For a moment, he believed that to get to semi's (again) and not make it to finals was a loss. I understand. We're driven to win!

I'm thankful for that moment. First, that he allowed me close enough to share his pain. Second, that God provided words of comfort, through me and his friends, to Nathan.

In this world, we win and we lose. Yet, when we give our very best, holding back nothing, REGARDLESS of the outcome, we are winners. God never promises that life is easy or fair or perfect (in fact, His Word says that we will face troubles of many kinds. John 16:33). God does promise to comfort those who need it. He promises that life - though unpredictable - will be full.

A few moments after our little pep talk from Jesus, Nathan was back to his usual self. His friends teased him a little, for taking it so seriously, then they picked him up and his joyful self returned.

And that's a win... good friends who share life's ups and downs in love!