People keep asking, "How'd you do Saturday night?" To be honest, I've struggled with the question.
Looking at it as a "job," I did well. I said the words I planned to say. I didn't trip on the stairs, fall, or knock over the podium. I used visual aids without dropping or fumbling them. And I handled the stationary microphone just fine.
But that's not really a good measure of "how'd you do?" The measure of success when sharing Jesus' message actually has nothing to do with me at all. It's all about Him. If I did everything right and no one listened, I'd have to say I was awful. If I did everything right, they listened, and no one's heart changed, I'd say I did awful.
First Corinthians 13:1 says, "If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal." Did love shine through my message and touch the people's hearts? If the answer to that is "yes," then I did great!
How did I do? Only God really knows. He's the one who can see into people's hearts. He's the one who knows if lives are changed. I can say that I was touched afterward when the emcee said, "I don't know about you but that left tears in my eyes." Did I touch his heart? I think so. A sweet member of that church's congregation took my hand in hers and said, "You know what you said, it goes full circle. Someone did that for me. It's time I go and do that for somebody else." God knows her potential. I pray for her -- and I hope one day to hear how she changes the world by giving back, "paying it forward" so to speak.
Another lady shared that she's going to serve at the iChoose Pregnancy Center. Yippee! She then asked me, "What do you do?" Wow... seriously! I hadn't thought about that question the whole time I prepared the message or gave it. She touched me.
What do I do? Like many of you, I serve faithfully in my church. But, it's not really about who's already in -- the message of salvation and hope needs to reach those who DON'T know it. Another way to ask that question is "Who knows of Jesus' love because of me?" When we got home from the event, I asked my husband that question about me. He seemed surprised. Then he rattled off a bunch of ways that I reach out to people in the community, especially teenagers and Walmart workers (hey, we all need a niche).
How about you? What do you do?
- Do you feed the homeless guy on the street corner?
- Do you invite people to church?
- Do you donate clothes to Goodwill? Or volunteer there?
- Do you mentor a kid -- maybe through a program like Big Brothers/Big Sisters?
- Do you give your time? talent? or treasure? to make a difference for God's kingdom here?
How did I do this weekend? Only God knows. I gave Him the best I had to give. When I get to heaven, I sure do hope He says, "Well done, my good and faithful servant." How about you?
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5 comments:
I can so relate to your post Karen! Last week I spoke at a church and afterwards got that same question. I, too, struggled with how to respond. Like you said only God knows how we truly did and if our words helped foster change. So how to respond? I really don't know the exact wording yet.
Oh and the reaching out to the WalMart workers...right there with you sister. Just yesterday I was told by the cashier that she loved when I came through her line because I always encouraged her. Wow, I thought I was having a so-so day and wasn't very engaging.
Only God can do things like that!!!
Great food for thought. That's the reason that I've started my blog (and hopefully one day ministry), that I might help someone else who is going through the same experiences.
You remind me that there are so many other ways to be involved, even for someone who is primarily bedridden.
Thank you.
You are so right! Man looks on the outward appearance but God looks on the heart! I struggle with, "What do you do?" I grew up as a missionary's kid. Right now it seems like all that I do is for my own family...then again right now I think it's about all I can do. Still I wish I could do more. :)
Don't be too hard on yourself! If you changed only ONE person's heart in a room full of a thousand, you were successful and did wonderfully. You do what you can do, and God does what he can- but people have their own free agency, and most of it is up to them, their hearts, and whether or not they choose to be perceptive. I bet you did wonderfully!
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Hey Karen,
Jennifer Boddie here. Your "She Speaks' friend:-) How are the kids and the new diet coming along. All I really wanted to say here is " I'm proud of you and your blog is beautiful ( as you are)"!
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