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Monday, August 20, 2012

Tick! Tock! Clock

Oh my dear friends,

I haven't fallen off the planet. PROMISE! I am, however, a little busy at home. Our firstborn leaves for college Thursday... and we're getting ready.

Nathan meets Ellie for the first time.
His stuff is all packed. He is most definitely ready -- he even read ahead for one of his classes (maybe he learned a lesson or two in high school?)

Nathan and Ben hamming it up together on vacation.
He's so kind, though, concealing his anticipatory glee when I get sad. Not talking too much about next week. Taking time one on one with his siblings.

Even when I asked what he wants for dinner these last three nights, he's considerate. I know his favorites: tamale casserole (all the flavor of a tamale without the frustrating prep), chicken-sausage gumbo, and Greek. But he's staying true to himself, "...if you have time, Mom."

And now, hamming it up with his roommate to be.
Time? I thought I had all the time in the world. Wrong. He grew up. And I will miss him.

Love,

1 comment:

annieh said...

Great blog- Time flies heartbreakingly fast. I look at pictures of my kids and wonder when they grew up- didn't I have my eyes on them all the whole time? It is a blessing, though, to add 'friendship' to the relationships we have with our kids, as they mature- to be able to move from a parent/child role to one of equals. It's a new relationship!
Christian packed up a u-haul and moved with a long-time friend/new roommate (at a new school)- didn't need my help at all. We got Emily into her dorm for her freshman year and she was all smiles.Not a shimmer of potential homesickness in her eyes. I've been moping around all day.
However, I can see that they will be strong, autonomous adults. They are firm in their faith. They have character that I'm proud of. Ultimately, isn't that our goal, as parents?
So, I may be sad and I may miss them, but I am so happy that they are growing up WELL.
Ann H